Category Archives: lust

Struggling with Who You Are versus Who You Want to Be

“Caged In” I do Conceptual Art Photography as a hobby.  I created this photo with the idea that we all struggle with something.  We are all trapped in cages of addiction.  I believe that no addiction is worse than any … Continue reading

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The Greatest Secret to Remaining Faithful during a Crush or a Midlife Crisis

I have to tell you about one of the strongest and most effective things that is helping me to remain faithful during my midlife crisis… It’s better than any book I’ve read.  It’s better than any strategy.  It’s better than … Continue reading

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How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#5-7)

My last post covered the first four rules to preventing or reversing a crush.  The rules are taken from an interesting article written by Gary and Joy Lundberg.  This post will pick up with the next few rules. #5  Chatting … Continue reading

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How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#1-4)

I’ve been planning to write this post for awhile now, but have just been keeping it on the back burner to simmer.  I feel like now is the time! I recently read a good article from Gary and Joy Lundberg … Continue reading

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do…

In my last couple posts, I started talking about a female “friend” I have.  She became a struggle for me because what was supposed to remain a friendship started to get messy when I began to have some feelings for … Continue reading

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“How to Overcome Porn”

Porn is no joke.  But it can be overcome.  It can seem overwhelming because there are so many things usually involved in giving up porn.  It’s not just porn that is the problem but also masturbation, lust for women in … Continue reading

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“How to Increase Will-Power–While You Sleep!”

Today, it seems there is a hyper-inflated promise to help you with any need in your life.  You can burn fat just by sprinkling magic powder on your food.  You can become a millionaire just by believing you can.  You … Continue reading

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A Christian Porn Addict…

So, in my last post I was detailing how exactly I went from a New Ager to a Christian.  I explained how God convinced me to take another look at the Bible and Jesus.  I explained the amazing things God … Continue reading

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Who I Am… (Childhood)

I’ve begun to realize the value of blogging relationships.  But, although I value the people I meet, I find I don’t really know them very well.  Often, the personal information they post about themselves is limited.  But, I’m very curious … Continue reading

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Not “fixed”, but recoverING…

I fell into a trap that I feel like I should point out for anyone else who may be trying to overcome something.  That trap is “counting days”. I started out in my recovery pretty strong.  I was sharing with … Continue reading

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