Category Archives: Relationships

Why You Need to Make Some New Friends and How to Do It

When it comes to addictions, and especially porn addictions, there are many people and groups scrambling to define the cause(s).  I have recently come across an article from Huffington Post that I believe really nails it on the head!  You … Continue reading

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5 Simple Ways to Show Your Wife Love.

I came across a good article from Mayra Bitsko a few weeks back.  It offers 5 simple ways to show your wife you love her.  I’ve been telling you how amazing my wife has been at showing me love. But, … Continue reading

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The Greatest Secret to Remaining Faithful during a Crush or a Midlife Crisis

I have to tell you about one of the strongest and most effective things that is helping me to remain faithful during my midlife crisis… It’s better than any book I’ve read.  It’s better than any strategy.  It’s better than … Continue reading

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How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#5-7)

My last post covered the first four rules to preventing or reversing a crush.  The rules are taken from an interesting article written by Gary and Joy Lundberg.  This post will pick up with the next few rules. #5  Chatting … Continue reading

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How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#1-4)

I’ve been planning to write this post for awhile now, but have just been keeping it on the back burner to simmer.  I feel like now is the time! I recently read a good article from Gary and Joy Lundberg … Continue reading

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A Week after Telling My Crush How I Felt about Her…

Here’s an update on how my first week went after telling my crush how I felt about her: So, everything started off pretty well!  At clinical, we were just friends again.  My feelings for her were under control.  I was … Continue reading

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So I Told My Crush How I Feel about Her, And…

In the comments to my last few posts, I received a lot of great advice about whether or not I should share with my crush how I was feeling about her. Some said, “definitely not”, because if she liked me … Continue reading

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Should I tell her about my feelings and my need to separate?

So, I’m looking for some quick advice from this post.  Here’s what’s going on in a nutshell if you haven’t been keeping up with my posts: 1)  I’m married (20 years now) and working on trying to make my marriage … Continue reading

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Creating the Distance Between Me and My “Crush”

In my last three posts, I have begun to share the story of my friend who I’ve developed a crush on over the last year.  I want to talk a little more about that because these posts have definitely stirred … Continue reading

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do…

In my last couple posts, I started talking about a female “friend” I have.  She became a struggle for me because what was supposed to remain a friendship started to get messy when I began to have some feelings for … Continue reading

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