Tag Archives: flirting

How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#1-4)

I’ve been planning to write this post for awhile now, but have just been keeping it on the back burner to simmer.  I feel like now is the time! I recently read a good article from Gary and Joy Lundberg … Continue reading

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A Week after Telling My Crush How I Felt about Her…

Here’s an update on how my first week went after telling my crush how I felt about her: So, everything started off pretty well!  At clinical, we were just friends again.  My feelings for her were under control.  I was … Continue reading

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do…

In my last couple posts, I started talking about a female “friend” I have.  She became a struggle for me because what was supposed to remain a friendship started to get messy when I began to have some feelings for … Continue reading

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Can Guys and Girls be Friends?

This has been an interesting question for a long time.  It was popularized by a viral Youtube video that asked that very question to college students in mixed friendships.  You can watch the video here.  The answer you ultimately get … Continue reading

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Lust vs. Porn vs. Love (the Lust Struggle)

I’ve always thought I struggled with a porn addiction, but now I’m not so sure. Let me explain what I mean…  Now that I’m removed from porn, I find that there is something else I find myself struggling with.  LUST!! … Continue reading

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