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Finding Yourself…

During a midlife crisis, it is common for a person to re-evaluate their life.  One one hand, that can be dangerous because it has led many people to make decisions that they have regretted later.  On the other hand, I … Continue reading

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5 Simple Ways to Show Your Wife Love.

I came across a good article from Mayra Bitsko a few weeks back.  It offers 5 simple ways to show your wife you love her.  I’ve been telling you how amazing my wife has been at showing me love. But, … Continue reading

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The Greatest Secret to Remaining Faithful during a Crush or a Midlife Crisis

I have to tell you about one of the strongest and most effective things that is helping me to remain faithful during my midlife crisis… It’s better than any book I’ve read.  It’s better than any strategy.  It’s better than … Continue reading

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How to Prevent or Reverse a Crush… the Mistakes I Made (#1-4)

I’ve been planning to write this post for awhile now, but have just been keeping it on the back burner to simmer.  I feel like now is the time! I recently read a good article from Gary and Joy Lundberg … Continue reading

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So I Told My Crush How I Feel about Her, And…

In the comments to my last few posts, I received a lot of great advice about whether or not I should share with my crush how I was feeling about her. Some said, “definitely not”, because if she liked me … Continue reading

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“Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew” on VH1

Another blogger tipped me off to this series of episodes on VH1 called “Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew”.  It’s nine celebs who have gone into rehab for their sex addictions.  Very interesting to watch.  It really puts the focus on … Continue reading

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Overcoming Crushes On Other Women….

I can see a new sense of normalcy returning.  The other night, I was at an event and someone was there who I’ve had a crush on in the past.  In fact, I’ve had a crush on her for a … Continue reading

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How Lust Dissolves Spirituality

There are a lot of reasons to give up porn and lust.  Some of them are positive reasons and some are negative.  I’m thinking today about a negative reason that has provided me with motivation for change.  It comes from … Continue reading

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Solomon’s Lust, Pt. 5 of 6

“Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and call insight your intimate friend, to keep you from the forbidden woman, from the adulteress with her smooth words.  For at the window of my house I have looked out through my … Continue reading

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Solomon’s Lust, Pt. 1 of 6

“And God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding beyond measure, and breadth of mind like the sand on the seashore,  so that Solomon’s wisdom surpassed the wisdom of all the people of the east and all the wisdom of Egypt.  For … Continue reading

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